While your family member, friend or partner is in hospital, you can help them by encouraging them to:

• Keep a normal sleep pattern

• Stay awake during the day by opening the curtains to let sunlight in.

• Get out of bed and sit in a chair during the day, if they can.

• Do daily tasks themselves, like going to the bathroom.

• Do mental activities, such as Sudoku or crossword puzzles.

• Eat and drink, and assist them if needed.

• Wear their glasses, contact lenses, or hearing aids.

• Have friends visit, if possible.

• Use a calendar and clock to help them keep track of the date and time.

• Avoid arguing about things that seem wrong to you – it may feel very real for them.

• Talk about things happening in the news, or around the room.

You can also support them by:

• Telling them where they are and why they’re in the hospital.

• Reminding them that they’re in a safe place, and their care team is looking after them.

• Reading to them from books or letters.

• Playing music they like, or calming music.

• Showing family photos and bringing familiar items from home, like a favourite blanket or book

If you have any concerns about the person you are visiting, don’t hesitate to discuss with the nurse.

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